Party hosts put perfect outfit on to-do list

One more thing to add to the to-do list for your holiday party:
Find an outfit that creates a celebratory mood, is welcoming and
warm (but not hot), can hide a little sauce splatter and has
pockets to stash remotes, phones and, for the ladies, lip
gloss.

It’s the delicate balance of being chic and comfortable.

“I can’t imagine any more pressure when you’re putting on a
party — when you are so focused on wine and food — and you have to
look beautiful as well,” says Simon Kneen, creative director of
Banana Republic. “Men have it a little easier, but you still have
to make it look effortless and easy to manage.”

Dressing for the role of host is a little bit different from a
guest, with many more practical considerations. Just like every
other aspect of the party, seasoned, stylish party-throwers say
you’ll likely want to do as much preplanning as you can.

Even last month, Kneen knew what he’d be wearing next time he
entertained: a poplin shirt, sleeves rolled, with a tie. Meanwhile,
Manhattan-based designer Shoshanna Gruss will pull one of her many
cocktail dresses with subtle slash pockets out of her closet and
pair it with a chunky necklace or sparkly cuff bracelet.

“I have some fun statement pieces that I don’t get to wear
often,” she says. “You’re setting the rules so you know you’ll be
appropriate.”

It would be a letdown, she adds, for guests who’ve put thought
into their outfits to find the hosts in something they’d wear any
other night.

“It feels funny to put on a dress and high heels at home, when
you know you’re not leaving, but it sets the tone,” Gruss says.
“And, it will feel weird to have the heels on when you’re checking
on everything at the last minute, but it won’t once the guests get
there. Your guests will appreciate it.”

Minnie Mortimer says she likes to emerge from her bedroom all
dressed up, especially now that she lives in more casual Los
Angeles after growing up in New York and Palm Beach, Fla. She sees
the holiday gatherings in her own home as an opportunity to wear
the maxi dresses she loves but finds difficult to navigate when
getting in and out of the car or walking for several blocks. Maybe
something in a jewel tone — which takes a little splatter better
than something light.

This year, Mortimer will jazz up her look with a glittery hair
pin. “I really like the holidays to be about a little bit of
sparkle. It’s hard to do the rest of the time or it looks too much,
but during the holidays, it looks appropriate,” she says.

Men don’t have to go quite that far, says Tyler Thoreson, head
of Gilt Groupe’s menswear editorial and creative divisions, but
they shouldn’t be in jeans, either.

“You will be tempted to wear jeans. Don’t. Think cords instead,”
he says. He likes deep-red, fine-wale pair. It’s an injection of
“holiday without going overboard.”

Anyway, since you’ll inevitably use your trousers in lieu of a
napkin or kitchen towel as you prepare the meal, cords will serve
you better, according to Thoreson: Corduroy pants hold up after
multiple washes. The dark denim you’d otherwise wear doesn’t do as
well with many washes.

Other tips:

• Men’s accessories: Think comfortable shoes, says Thoreson,
because you’ll be on your feet. Oh, he adds, and you’re likely to
spill something at some point. He recommends lug-soled
wingtips.

Banana Republic’s Kneen says any shoes at all are better than
slippers.

• Invitation dress code: Mortimer says she likes a little
guidance from the host, even if it’s just a vague suggestion such
as “holiday-party dress.”

But, Gruss says, remember, it’s family time. Wear the more
conservative cuts and save the sexy Herve Leger-style bandage dress
for another occasion.

• Beauty: Makeup should be maintenance-free, says Ricky Wilson,
Dior Beauty’s celebrity makeup artist. “I take the same approach I
do with a client attending a red carpet event. You have to keep in
mind that you have many people looking at you with little or no
time to look at yourself.” His picks include false eyelashes or at
least waterproof mascara, and liquid eyeliner.

For the lips, he suggests a neutral waterproof lip pencil
underneath a lipstick AND a gloss. You want staying power, he
says.

• Photos: At some point, someone is going to snap a photo of the
host, so Wilson says you may as well take one before any guests
arrive, just so you know what it will look like. Snap it just
before the party starts. “Make sure you have your outfit on and
hair close to done if not finished,” Wilson says. “This will give
you an idea of how you will look in the photographs.”

• No outfits: An “outfit” already has too many parts for a
multitasking host, says Kneen. Women should stick to a simple-shape
dress in a flattering color. Even black works when the house is
decorated, as long as there’s some point of interest created by an
interesting or conversational accessory, he says.

“As the hostess, you’re naturally the center of attention, but
you compliment your guests on their outfits and let them
shine.”

Kneen adds, “You want people to feel at ease. You want them to
relax and stay longer.”

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